Self-proclaimed President of Single mothers Esther Akoth aka Akothee has expressed displeasure in women who keep on blaming men who run away from responsibilities after impregnating them.
The singer argues that in this time and era its basically a choice to have a child and when people two people (Lovers) sleep together they are always aware that a child can be made if protection is not used.
She went on to state that no baby mama ever moves on when the relationship ends, but they only create boundaries to ensure the child is accorded with what he/she deserves.
If you want a child, invest first
"If you want A child ,then invest first , I have no time to chase you around from one court to the other, from another lawyer to a counselor, ITS BETTER TO TELL YOU NO NOW, THAN TO CHASE YOU LATER ,you telling people How I have never moved on,and I want you back 🏃♂️🏃♂️,Nop, there is No baby mama who ever moves on as long as we have a child with you , responsibilities Never moves on until the child attains an age where He can fend for himself💪,its a lie, we just put on a strong face ,but that thing hits badly below the belt 🤔🤔, we baby momas of old days ,we are very intelligent, so dont come with I want ababy thing with us, this is a narrative, let the narrative be and enjoy the time ❤❤ let it come from us, and most of the time we are joking just to make you comfortable 🤣🤣🤣, nowadays, we dont fear being dumped , we fear getting pregnant ,infact we are afraid haki, we can pick the next tom dick or hurry ,but none will ever replace the biological parent , #think WOMAN" reads part of Akothee's post.
Think Straight
Madam Boss added that she learned from her mistakes and she would not like her fans or followers to fall in the same trap, when she can share her experience to educate a few people.
"NEVER BLAME A MAN FOR RUINING YOUR LIFE, YOUR LIFE IS IN YOUR HANDS AND THE POWER IS IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS, ENGAGE YOUR BRAIN AND DISCONNECT YOUR HEART FOR NOW ,AND THINK STRAIGHT 💪💪💪 A man can impregnate upto 100 women in a year , but 100 women can only get pregnant once a year ! So as A woman ,having a child is basically your choice, in this age and error 💪 there is no accident in getting pregnant! If so, all slayqueens including me, would be pregnant by now , just imagine if all the men I dated convinced me to have a child for them after OYOO 🤣🤣🤣🙆♂️🙆♂️ I would end up with a whole nursery school, me that is fertile like a chicken 🙆♂️🙆♂️so AFTER OYOO FULLSTOP" added Akothee.