"Vibrators can help your body learn to respond to a variety of sensations," says certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk , PhD, the resident relationship/sex expert at Adam & Eve . "It also creates more variety in your sexual repertoire and can spice up your long-term sexual relationships." And, of course, using a vibrator increases your odds of orgasming, which is always a plus.
But shopping for a vibrator can be intimidating. After all, there are a lot of options on the market, and many are designed to target something different on your body. So, how the heck are you supposed to know which are the best vibrators for women?
Well, for starters, it depends on your personal preference. "Each persons response is unique, so you have to experiment to see what works for you," says sex expert Jess OReilly, PhD, host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast. Some people prefer indirect vibrations, for example, but others are into placing a vibe right against their skin, she says.
And while it'd be awesome if you could just go out and buy a bunch of vibrators to see which one works best for you, you probably dont have the budget for that (sigh). Luckily, these 17 best vibrators for women-all sex toy experted approved-are here to help you spend less time online and more time in bed:
1. The Fin
The Fin was designed by inventors from the female-centric sex toy company, DAME. It has a unique shape and slides onto your fingers so you can focus less on gripping your toy and more on the way it makes you feel (which is kinda the whole point). Not only does it have dual sensations and three speeds to help get you off, but it's also made with silicone, which Van Kirk says is "a safe bet" texture-wise.
2. We-Vibe Unite
The We-Vibe Unite fits snugly against your body, so you can have hands-free clitoral and G-spot stimulation. While it works great for solo sessions, you can also use it during penetrative sex. This vibe also has one speed, nine different vibrations, and stays fully charged for 90 minutes-a definite perk to help you stave off what Van Kirk calls "stimulation fatigue," if it takes you awhile to orgasm .
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3. Lelo Tara
Okay, this is definitely a unique toy. The Tara can be worn during sex or a solo sesh, and it has an "arm" that swirls to add new and different sensations. It's also charged via USB, which Van Kirk says is a good option if you never seem to have batteries handy.
4. Pom
This is a newer offering from DAME, the makers of The Fin. Pom sits in your hands and bends up against you to help give you wide-ranging or targeted stimulation. It also has five preset speeds and-major plus-is waterproof. Pom also has an angled tip that you can press against the head or shaft of your clitoris , a feature OReilly recommends.
5. Lelo Sona
The Sona uses sonic waves and pulses to deliver pleasure where you need it most. It also has eight different settings and is 100 percent waterproof, so you can break it out in the shower, bath, hot tubreally, anyplace with or without water. You really want to look for a vibe that creates more variety in your sexual repertoire, Van Kirk says-and this is definitely a great option.
6. Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibe
Bullet vibrators usually look like, well, a bullet. But this one is next-level with rabbit ears that can be used to work around your clitoris or go in for a more targeted approach. Another cool feature of bullet vibes, per OReilly: "They tend to be quieter than larger vibrators." So if you've got roommates, this one's for you.
7. Tiger Vibe G5
Think of this vibe like a penis on steroids. The Tiger Vibe has a phallic shape, but with ridges for your pleasure and a curve to hit your G-spot . It also has a nice, wide base to hit your clitoris. Its usually easier to masturbate using a vibrator, Van Kirk says, and this is definitely a great way to mimic penetrative sex on your own.
8. Je Joue Fifi
This toy has split ears that hug your clitoris and an internal vibe that works you from the inside out, so you can go for dual orgasms. Ultimately, the best vibe for you depends on the sensations youre going for, explains OReilly-and this gives you a lot of options.
9. Jimmyjane Form 2
The Form 2 has dual motors (one in each tip) and flexible ears that you can use to pinch, squeeze, and surround your clitoris with intense vibrations. Its also made of medical grade silicone-OReillys preferred sex toy material-and charges on contact with its base, making it simple to use and store.
10. Intro 6 Vibrator
A great sex toy doesnt have to cost a ton , Van Kirk points out, and the Intro 6 is a perfect example. You can use it internally to target your G-spot or externally as a clitoral stimulator. Heck, you can even use it during oral sex to help get you off. Whatever you do, its perfect for spot stimulation.
11. Fun Factory Volta G5
The Volta G5 looks like a flame, and thats cool because its about to set your sex life on fire. This toy has unique tapping tips that work your clitoris like youre getting amazing oral sex . Its also great for nipple stimulation and BJs, making it a fun twist on a couples vibrator .
Ultimately, the best thing about a vibe is that it allows you to experiment and see what works best for you, OReilly says. And this is one toy youll be eager to work with again and again (and again).
12. We-Vibe Wish Personal Massager
This little vibe looks like a pretty computer mouse, but its so much more fun. The tool has 10 vibration modes, as well as a create-your-own feature. "I just love the texture and shape," says OReilly. "It fits perfectly around the vulva and has a gently-pointed tip if you want to pinpoint the head of your clitoris." (Trust me, you do.)
13. Vertigo Rabbit Vibrator
The rabbit is designed to target your G-spot and clitoris to give you a seriously epic orgasm. This vibe has 12 orbs inside the shaft that swirl around, while the rabbit ears go to work on your clitoris. Its also waterproof, so you can take it in the shower (score).
14. Hitachi Magic Wand Massager
The magic wand has been a best-seller for years, and its kind of a cult favorite. Its advertised as a massager for sore backs, necks, and shoulders, but most people use it as a sex toy. "Ive met dozens of women who learned to orgasm for the first time thanks to their Magic Wand," OReilly says. If it worked for them, it'll definitely work for you.
15. G Kiss Waterproof Vibrator
As far as vibrators go, the G Kiss is pretty cheap. But dont mistake the low price point for lack of quality. The toys contoured tip vibrates to target your G-spot, while the clitoral stimulator and its pleasure nubs go to work on your clitoris. With three speeds and dual motors, this is a pretty good bang for your buck-literally.
16. Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace
Not only is the Crave Vesper made of stainless steel and USB rechargeable, but it has four settings to help get you off. Oh, and the coolest thing about the Vesper is that you can wear it as a statement necklace. "This is a conversation piece," says OReilly. "Its slim, sleek, and only those in the know will recognize its true purpose."
17. Satisfyer Pro Penguin Clitoral Vibrator
This vibe gets its name from its penguin-like shape and works by stimulating your clitoris with a suction tip. The penguin has 11 intensities, so you can mix it up depending on what works for you in the moment. Plus, its USB charger gives you two hours of stimulation so you can go (almost) all night long.