"Vibrators can help your body learn to respond to a variety of sensations," says certified sex therapist Kat Van Kirk, resident relationship and sex expert at Adam & Eve . "It also creates more variety in your sexual repertoire and can spice up your long-term sexual relationships."
That said, with all the options out there, shopping for the vibrator that'll turn you on every time you switch it on isn't all that simple. In fact, considering all the bells and whistles and hefty price tags some of the vibes of 2020 are boasting, it can be pretty freaking hard.
"Consider what you are looking for," Alexandra Fine, CEO and cofounder of Dame Products and a certified sexologist, recommends. "What type of experience do you want this tool to help you unlock? Clitoral stimulation , for example, could be something you want to focus onor maybe penetration's more your thing.
We talked to sex experts to come up with this list of the 23 best vibrators for women in 2020, whatever your ~vibe~ (lol, get it?). With the guesswork out of the way, you can spend less time online and more time in bed.
1. Dame Zee
Dame's new vibrator, Zee, just launched last November. Instead of silicon, it's made from type of silky-smooth plastic called ABS (which, fun fact, Legos are made from), then coated with a soft-touch spray. Why, you ask? Because this thinner material makes room for Zee's super-powerful motor.
2. Bam Bullet
Just here to put yet another bullet vibrator on your radar. The VeDo Bam Bullet has **10** different vibration patterns (huge), and it's made of soft silicone. While it might be little, this one packs quite the punch. And FYI, Engle says bullet vibrators are "the best place to start," since they focus on the glans (aka your clit's head), which is "where the vast majority of women discover their potential for orgasm and pleasure."
3. We-Vibe Unite
Looking for a toy that you can use with your S.O., too? We-Vibe Unite is perfect for slipping in between you and your partner. It stays put while it pulses, allowing you the freedom to caress yourself elsewhere or keep grinding along with its vibrations. Like to take your time time during sex? That's totally fine because this lil' thing can go for up to 60 minutes straight (do people actually last that long ? Asking for a friend).
4. The Fin
This water-resistant finger vibe is pretty much perf for both solo masturbation and partnered sex. The band that wraps around your fingers and makes it easy to lose yourself in the sensation without losing grip on the toy. The Fin is "a great choose-your-own-adventure toy, since it can easily be integrated into whatever youre already doing with your hands," says Fine. Major bonus: It's got a magnetic USB charger and is made of medical-grade silicone.
5. Le Wand Vibrator
Le Wand is a freakin' classic, which is why so many sexperts recommend it as the best vibrator for women. So it's not the most discreet-looking toy (but, TBH, who cares?). In fact, it's on the bigger side for a reason. It's meant to be used all around your clitoris for earth-shattering orgasms, or you can angle part of its head to reach inside you for some internal-type pleasure. It's got 20 vibration patterns, 10 different speeds (um, r u serious?), and it's USB rechargeable. Look, it's called 'the wand' for a reason. It's magic.
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6. Tiger Vibe G5
Want internal pleasure? Want to reach what your fingers can't? If so, then the Tiger Vibe G5 might be your perfect match. Shaped like a penis and with a special ringed handle for optimal movement, this vibe is meant for insertion and can reach all the way up to your G-Spot. It's 100 percent waterproof (perf for taking into baths and showers), and it's got a rechargeable battery (major key).
7. Vertigo Rabbit Vibrator
Remember that vibrator that literally kept Charlotte in bed for days in Sex And The City? Well, that's this guy. Let me introduce you to the Vertigo Rabbit Vibrator, a tool that stimulates both your G-Spot and clitoris *at the same time*. It's got little orbs that whirl around while it pulses for increased stimulation, too. Engle says that "vibrators are a tool for female sexual liberation," and honestly, the rabbit will make you feel liberated as hell.
8. Lovelife Cuddle Mini
The Cuddle Mini is less than 5 inches long, which means it's the perfect travel companion. The motor is super quiet (yesss), it's USB rechargeable, and you can use it in the shower 'cause it's waterproof. If you're looking to stimulate more than just your downstairs, rub the Mini along your belly and nipples for all-over goosebumps.
9. G Kiss Waterproof Vibrator
As far as vibrators go, the G Kiss is pretty cheap. But dont mistake the low price point for lack of quality. The toys contoured tip vibrates to target your G-spot, while the clitoral stimulator and its pleasure nubs go to work on your clitoris. With three speeds and dual motors, this is a pretty good bang for your buckliterally.
10. Pom
This tiny vibe fits right in the palm of your hand and bend at your will. It has a super-powerful motor and comes in two colors. Fine recommends humping the toy between your legs or sliding it in your panties. "It's my personal fav," she adds.
11. Sona Cruise 2
The Lelo Sona Cruise 2 is here to stimulate all your clitoral needs. It mimics the sensation of oral sex, (um, yes plz!), and the harder you push it against your skin, the more it increases the vibrating intensity (v special feature, you guys!). It uses sonic waves to deliver vibrations to your clit without actually touching it, which is huge for those of you who can't handle a lot of direct clitoral stimulation.
12. Luxury Prt--Porter
This toy is called the Satisfyer Luxury for a reason. It's made from suuuper soft silicone, ~genuine leather~, and metal detailing that racks up the price, but hey, it might just be worth it. The Satisfyer gently cups the clitoris with its head and, according to Fine, uses "intense air technologies to create a sucking-like sensation."
13. Rabbit Bullet Vibe
The Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibe combines the size and power of a bullet with the huggable "ears" of a rabbit vibrator. You can use it to envelope the hood of your clit or massage your vulva with the bullet's base. Because the Rabbit Bullet is so dynamic, it's sure to bring you all the orgasmic exploration you need. Bonus: "They tend to be quieter than larger vibrators," says sex expert Jess OReilly, author of The New Sex Bible and host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast. So if you've got roommates, this one's for you.
14. Starlet 2
The Womanizer Starlet 2 is Engle's favorite toy for beginners. "You turn it on, put the nozzle over the glans, and bam, you're having an orgasm in just a few minutes," she says. For those of you who've never had an orgasm before, Engle says using the Womanizer is "a fabulous way to find out what they feel like without any guesswork."
15. Jimmyjane Form 2
The Form 2 has powerful vibrating motors in each flexible ear. It's perfect for pinching around your clitoral hood in a way that gives you stimulation without touching the pleasure center directly. And while it's def not for insertion, Fine says that's totally okay.
16. Palma Vibrating Ring
Palma is a super sleek statement piece of jewelry that doubles as a vibrator. Yes, you legit wear it on your finger. Fine says "vibrators that are also jewelry can be incredibly empowering. They allow you to demonstrate in public that you prioritize your pleasuresomething to be proud of." Gently caress your labia and nipples with Palma for a buildup, then push the ring against your clit when you're ready for explosives.
17. We-Vibe Moxie
Wearable (a.k.a. panty) vibrators are awesome, and this one is no exception: It's mini, contoured, super soft, and quiet. Just slip the mini, contoured vibe into your underwear before dinner, and hand off control to a partner via the remote or mobile appor use it to tease yourself when you're bored at work. (Jk, don't do that last part...)
18. Vesper Vibrator Necklace
PSA: The Crave Vesper is freaking necklace, people. Not only is it sleek and stylish, but it's also made of stainless steel, has four different vibrations, and it's USB rechargeable. The best part about jewelry that doubles as an accessory? "Theyre great for an impromptu rendezvous," says Fine. But even though Vesper's surface is smooth, you might want to make it feel even more sleek by pairing it with water-based lube for optimal stimulation.
19. We-Vibe Tango
The Tango comes highly recommended from Engle. She says its strength comes from its simplicity, since it's "a small bullet vibrator with a ton of speeds and rhythms." TBH, it's also ideal because of how quiet it is when you turn it on.
20. Womanizer Premium
So you've read about the Womanizer Starlet, but what about the Womanizer ~Premium~? It's another favorite of Engle's. She's into it because this model's longer base makes it easier to use. The Premium has 12 different intensity levels and has a special autopilot setting that changes its rhythm every time you turn it on. Plus, it's extra-soft silicon makes it especially nice for people who have sensitive glans, Engle adds.
21. Enby
Enby is considered the first gender-neutral vibrator because of its innovative multi-body design. Rub the flexible silicone tip around your clitoris or flip the toy around so that the triangular base sits at your perineum. Or you can place yourself on top and use a humping rhythm to experience a wave of stimulation with each stroke.
22. MysteryVibe Crescendo
The Crescendo is super special because the shaft bends however the eff you please. You might curve it into a V-shape and use it for both penetrative stimulation and clitoral stimulation at once. Looking to try anal but getting some first-time nerves? This vibrator is slender and gentle enough that you can insert without it feeling too intense (but make sure you use with water-based lube!).
23. SKYN Vibes Massager
If you're looking for affordable options, you def need to check out the Vibes Massager by SKYN. It comes highly recommended by Engle, who says it's "super bendy and easy to maneuver." The best part? It's versatile. "Whats great is that you can use it for dual stimulation of the clit and G-spot," she adds. Don't want penetration? Just use it on your clit, vulva or nipples.