Barone Oindi

We need to be daring and courageous enough to talk about reproductive sexual health to save our teenagers from drowning in the ocean of unwanted pregnancies and STI's.&nbsp;

My name is Barone Oindi. I am a media personality and enthusiast. I have featured in popular television shows such as The Real House Helps of Kawangware, Varshita and even TVC ads such as Jumia Ad as an actor.

I have also featured in short films such Blind by Dylan Habil, Akothee by Japheth Ayieko, Darling You by Kim Proper and currently in production Life ya Tony na Jonte by Eastmond Mwenda.&nbsp;

You might ask yourself why I’m talking about reproductive sexual health education. I recently featured in a short film titled Hayazoleki as the character Karl.

The film’s title is derived from a Swahili saying 'Maji yakimwagika hayazoleki' which can be translated as 'spilled water can’t be collected'.

I fell in love with the project immediately director JaFee told me about it.

Director JaFee with actors on "Hayazoleki" film set

Hayazoleki synopsis

Hayazoleki tells the story of a 16-year-old girl, Mbone, who is a Form Three student. She is a very beautiful, brilliant, high performing student at school and her parents are conflicted on educating her on matters reproductive and sexual health.

Where her father believes their daughter is intelligent and that she knows what’s wrong and what’s right, her mother believes they still need to talk to her.

All the while, Mbone secretly carries on a relationship with a 24-year-old man which later lands her in problems and the parents begin the blame games.

This is a fictitious story, however, I find that even in reality we often wait for "water to spill" before we start the blame games.

What if we could have tried preventing the water from spilling?

According to statistics, the number of teenage girls who presented with pregnancy between January and May 2020 were 151,433.

A majority of these girls are likely to drop out of school due to fear of stigmatization and health related issues. This hinders the steps being taken to ensure girls and boys have equal opportunities of getting educated and achieving their dreams.

Hayazoleki film seeks to bridge the gap between parents and children in holding productive dialogue on sexual and reproductive health matters.

The importance of holding these conversations in our homes is that we educate girls and boys on avoiding unwanted teenage pregnancies.

I believe these kinds of projects, especially ones in film and theatre, will change the narrative around sexual and reproductive health education because if we don’t teach them then who will?

It doesn’t matter if you are a parent or not, if you want a better future, then you are the one to make it happen. If you can educate one teenager on the importance of abstaining from sexual relationships until they are ready and mature enough for them, then we are a step closer to our desired future where the number of teenage pregnancies and early marriages is low.

Kama sio sisi, nani? (If not us, then who?)

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Barone Onyango Oindi is a spirited 22-year-old Kenyan. He is an actor, comedian, commercial model and a film enthusiast. He also writes film scripts once in a while in addition I love vlogging, shooting random videos and making comedy skits.

Sneak peek at "Hayazoleki" Kenyan film [Pulse Contributor's Review]

Hayazoleki tells the story of a 16-year-old girl, Mbone

Dear Kenyan Filmmaker,

Hoping you are on the other side, are you well?

Here on my keyboard, I am disturbed. What is the reason of my disturbance? It’s the fact that our African languages are not only going extinct but they are thought to be incapable of expressing profound and elevated thoughts.

Can we use our languages to express our thoughts? YES! Through film. Films, compared to guns, are very powerful if used effectively.

World War II was won through propaganda which was mainly transmitted through films.

Africa has been painted negatively, sometimes as a continent with illiterate, cruel, hard people with no heart among many other things.

That is not us and time has come for, us, filmmakers to arise, pick our pens, cameras and tell our own stories using our own languages.

Let’s show the world who we really are, let's recreate the world’s imagination of us as Africans and more so Kenyan filmmakers.

I show you what I want to show you

In Kenya, we have more than forty-five ethnic languages and forty-seven counties. If we use films to paint a picture of our beautiful country, cultures and heritages then we will change the world’s thoughts about our country.

There is this line which is commonly used, ‘I show you what I want to show you’ and a good illustration would be New York City in America.

NYC has been painted as a city where life is lavish and full of fun, which has influenced more people to choose it as their number one travel destination. How sure are we that is the way life is lived there?

New York City, USA - August 1, 2018: Elevated view of the skyline of modern skyscrapers of Manhattan at sunset in New York City, USA

What if we use film to create a good picture of Mombasa, Nairobi and other beautiful parts of Kenya but using our own stories and languages? Won't tourists increase in our land? Won't we have created a different picture of our country, Kenya?

When Nollywood films took over our media we described them as ‘trash’ and 'boring', yet they had their own language, own signature and identity.

If someone ever asked you to describe Nigeria I am very sure you will have a full page essay in font size eight and 1.15 spacing, simply put, you will have a lot to write on just one page.

Were you asked to write about Nairobi based on the films you have watched would you have anything to document?

In Kenya too, we have a lot of mythical stories, oral traditions and more. We should emulate the Nigerian culture of making films and this will enable the upcoming generation to learn our languages and preserve our cultures and heritages.

STOP telling European stories using Kiswahili

Celebrated Nigerian author Chinua Achebe opined: “The last five hundred years of European contact with Africa produced a body of literature that presented Africa in a very bad light, and now the time has come for Africans to tell their own stories... Africa is a huge continent with a diversity of cultures and languages. Africa is not simple – often people want to simplify it, generalize it, stereotype its people, but Africa is very complex."

The world is just starting to get to know Africa.

Chinua Achebe speaking about Things Fall Apart

If we could only use our languages to tell our own stories, stories that we can relate to; stories that can preserve our cultures and heritages; then we can make our own signature, our own style that the world can identify us with.

We should STOP telling European stories using Kiswahili and in our beautiful Kenyan land.

I will conclude this letter with a Luhya proverb that says "Wakhaleka papao, nikho khakonia mao," which can be translated as, "Even if you despise you father, he is the one who sleeps with your mother!"

Your comrade and biggest fan,

Barone Oindi.

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