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However, for some of the region's most high-profile socialites, love has taken center stage and they are now officially off the market.

From fairytale weddings and lavish engagements to intimate elopements, these East African socialites are officially off the market.

<h3>1. Amber Ray – Kenya&nbsp;</h3>

Socialite Faith Makau aka Amber Ray is the latest Kenyan socialite to raise the bar after <a target="_blank" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/relationships-and-weddings/amber-ray-says-a-big-yes-after-kennedy-rapundo-proposed-during-trip-to-dubai/p8bq67r">saying yes to Kennedy Rapudo in more than one proposal.</a>

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This came a few months after Amber revealed that she was ready to settle down and be committed.

“Okay, the economy is no longer suitable for me to remain an independent woman. The time has finally come. I am now considering listening to you n****s for supplemental income. I’m ready to settle down this time I mean it!” Read her Instagram post shared on June 2022.&nbsp;

Amber Ray and her boyfriend Kenned Rapudo

<a target="_self" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/articles/entertainment/celebrities/kennedy-rapudo-has-proposed-to-amber-ray-for-the-second-time-during-their-baby-shower-2024072909430502176">Kennedy Rapudo proposed to Amber Ray</a> for the second time, this time with a diamond ring, following his initial proposal in November 2022.

The couple lives together and shares a daughter. Rapudo has two other children from previous relationships, while Amber also has a son from a past relationship.

READ ALSO:<a target="_self" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/articles/lifestyle/relationships-and-weddings/amber-ray-issues-marriage-ultimatum-to-fiance-kennedy-rapudo-amid-regrets-2024112007142361822"> I made mistake giving birth to Africanah before marriage - Amber Ray</a>

<h3>2. Anita Fabiola – Uganda</h3>

Ugandan actress, former beauty queen, and socialite Anita Fabiola is officially off the market after walking down the aisle with the man of her dream Mark Ronald on January 7, 2022.

In a series of beautiful photos, the businesswoman took to her Instagram account to inform her loyal fans of the exciting progress in her life.

"I’m still finding the right words to express how surreal yesterday felt. It still feels like a dream. Thank you to all the friends and family that made this possible. We felt loved and, we thank you for your blessings," Anitah Fabiola.

<a target="_self" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/articles/lifestyle/beauty-and-fashion/risper-faith-steps-out-in-new-looks-after-2nd-liposuction-procedure-2024072914583519127">Reality TV star Risper Faith</a>—who many might call a retired socialite—has transitioned into a successful influencer and content creator.

Risper married Brian in February 2018 after being engaged for nearly a year. Since then, the couple has shared glimpses of their happy relationship with fans. They have one child, a son, together.

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<h3>4. Zari Hassan - Uganda</h3>

Ugandan socialite and businesswoman Zari Hassan is married and happy.

<a target="_self" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/articles/entertainment/celebrities/zari-hassan-reveals-the-benefits-of-not-living-with-her-husband-shakib-lutaaya-2024072918084577933">The South Africa-based Uganda woman</a> kept the identity of her man hidden until May 2022 when she was spotted with him, Shakib Lutaaya at a beach in Dar E Salaam.

READ ALSO: <a target="_self" class="editor-link" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/articles/entertainment/celebrities/zari-hassan-declares-right-to-a-second-husband-if-shakib-lutaaya-cheats-2024072918105705607">I have the right to a second husband - Zari Hassan</a>

After dating for a while, the mother of five&nbsp;tied the knot with the businessman and professional boxer on October 3, 2023.

East African socialites who are officially off the market

List of East African socialites who are officially off the market

Nicanor Sabula

A recent newspaper report on a raft of proposals by the National Treasury to among others introduce taxes targeting the aviation sector rekindled the old-aged, misguided characterisation of air travel as a “luxury service” enjoyed exclusively by the rich.&nbsp;

This is far from the truth and is misrepresentative of Kenya’s modern economy and the realities of its travel industry.

In the proposals, the National Treasury is seeking to introduce 16% VAT on a number of air travel related services such as air ticketing services by travel agents, hiring, chattering and leasing of aircrafts, aircraft navigation systems among others. &nbsp;

This adjustment, Treasury argues, is a necessary step towards expanding the tax base and ensuring that a wider array of services contributes to national revenue.

While the government’s decision to provide tax relief on essentials such as bread and unga is widely welcomed, widespread use and importance of air travel across socio-economic strata in Kenya.

<h3>Air travel is a growing necessity, not a luxury</h3>

Kenya’s air travel industry has grown rapidly in recent years, reflecting the country’s expanding middle class, the growth of domestic tourism, and the rise of affordable travel options.

Domestic airlines like Jambojet,&nbsp;Skyward and; Safarilink &nbsp;have made it possible for Kenyans from diverse income levels to travel domestically, whether for business, education, family, obligations, or tourism.

For instance, it’s now common to find fares from Nairobi to Mombasa or Kisumu for as low as Sh5,000, making air travel an attractive alternative to long bus journeys, particularly in terms of safety and time saved.

Moreover, in some areas where road infrastructure is still developing, air travel remains the only practical choice of travel allowing people to traverse the country with ease and efficiency.

Granted, air travel in Kenya still remains expensive for the average Kenyan- however, to assume that those flying between cities such as Nairobi, Eldoret, Kisumu, Lodwar or Wajir are exclusively wealthy overlooks the reality that many travelers are professionals, small business owners, students, and even rural residents visiting family.

<h3>Impact of Proposed Taxes on Business Travel</h3>

Taxing air ticketing services is likely to impact Kenya’s small and medium-sized businesses, which rely on affordable domestic flights to expand their reach and access opportunities.

Many entrepreneurs and workers travel within Kenya to secure contracts, attend conferences, and network, all of which support economic growth and job creation.&nbsp;If air ticket prices rise due to new taxes, it could limit access for these business travelers, ultimately affecting productivity and the economy.

Given that Kenya aims to position itself as a regional economic hub, affordable travel options are crucial. For many, air travel is no longer a luxury but a cost-effective solution to meet the demands of a rapidly modernizing economy.

<h3>Balancing Revenue with Accessibility</h3>

While the government has an obligation to explore all avenues for tax revenue, it’s essential that any changes in tax policy consider the broader implications on everyday Kenyans.

Air transport, just like other modes of transportation is a public service consumed by mwananchi at a slightly higher price. It is for the same reason we don’t tax matatus or bus fares or even SGR fares. Air travel may seem an unlikely target, but for a growing number of Kenyans, it’s a part of their livelihoods.

Categorising air travel as a “rich-only” service fails to recognise the real and growing need for accessible, affordable travel options.

The Treasury’s move to offer tax relief on basic household essentials is welcomed and will greatly benefit Kenya’s lower-income households. But as Kenya’s economy evolves, so too should our perspectives on “luxury” versus “necessity.”

Air travel is today increasingly becoming a basic part of the fabric of Kenyan life, with significant benefits to local economies, small businesses, and personal well-being. Thoughtful tax policy should reflect this reality, balancing the need for revenue with the right to affordable travel for all.

As Kenya looks to grow as a competitive and inclusive economy, it’s clear that air travel is more than a service for the wealthy. It’s a bridge across communities, regions, and economic divides, and any tax policy should reflect its role as an enabler of opportunity—not as a privilege&nbsp;of&nbsp;the&nbsp;elite.

KATA officials led by Chairman Dr Joseph Kithitu (Ph.D,MBA, BSC,CPAK,CPSK,AKIM) and CEO Nicanor Sabula presented a petition to the National Assembly Committee of Finance and Economic Planning

KATA officials led by Chairman Dr Joseph Kithitu and CEO Nicanor Sabula presented a petition to the National Assembly Committee of Finance and Economic Planning on behalf of members of KATA at the ongoing public participation forum. The petition called for the scrapping of the proposal to introduce VAT on air ticketing services supplied by Travel Agents.

No, air travel is not just for the rich in Kenya [Pulse Contributor's Opinion]

Latest Kenyan Men's Health Tips, News & Trends

Mens health

Enock Wanyama

It was 3 a.m., and I couldn’t sleep. My phone lay in my hand, a glowing rectangle of despair.

Moments earlier, I’d watched a man’s dignity stripped away in broad daylight—reduced to shreds like some cheap knock-off fabric on sale at Gikomba Market. The video was too graphic to stomach, yet impossible to unsee. It shook me. Not just the act itself, but the eerie normalcy of it. The sheer indifference of it all.

I thought about Bruce. Poor Bruce. Did he wake up that morning knowing his life would be splashed across our timelines like a bad meme? I doubt it. Maybe he woke up hopeful, the way we all do on rare, optimistic mornings.

Maybe he brewed some tea, listened to his favorite morning show, and decided it was a cologne kind of day. Bruce might have even prepped an elaborate breakfast—the kind where you hum as you whisk eggs for your Spanish omelette, pretending life is a cooking show and not a slow descent into chaos.

Or maybe it was one of those cursed mornings where everything goes wrong. You wake up late. You stub your toe. The last clean shirt you own has a stain. You take one look at the dishes in the sink and pretend you didn’t see them. Maybe Bruce, like the rest of us, didn’t have the energy to face life, much less the dystopian nightmare it would morph into.

Then the unimaginable happened. Bruce, a man like you and me, was humiliated in the most barbaric fashion. And what did we do? We tweeted. We sat in our homes and offices, sipping coffee and scrolling, clutching pearls from the safety of our swivel chairs. Oh, we were outraged, sure—but not enough to actually do anything.

The next day at work, the air was thick with tension. Inevitably, the conversation turned to the video. I kicked it off with a frustrated declaration. “Sorry, but if Bruce were a woman, we’d all be out in the streets by now. It’d be placards, hashtags, and CNN interviews by 6 a.m.”

Gertrude, our resident feminist and undisputed queen of comebacks, raised an eyebrow. “True,”she said, “but why haven’t men gone out to support him? Why are you all so silent?” And just like that, she dropped the mic. Her question landed with the force of a sack of cement.

My brain froze. I had no answer. None. The silence in the room spoke louder than any of us could, and soon, the conversation veered off into lighter topics—Justin Bieber’s latest album and Chimamanda Adichie’s literary genius. But that question stayed with me. It followed me home, clinging to my thoughts like the smell of burnt toast.

<h3>Just why don’t men stand up for fellow men?</h3>

Let’s not sugarcoat it: men are terrible at showing up for each other. Globally, most evils inflicted on men are by other men. A man is more likely to be your hazard than your haven. If men had theme songs, they’d go something like, “Every man for himself and God for us all.”

We’re conditioned this way. From childhood, we’re taught to “man up,” to carry our pain like a badge of honor, to compete, not connect. Vulnerability? That’s for the weak. So when Bruce got shredded, metaphorically and literally, our first instinct wasn’t to rally behind him but to pretend it wasn’t our business. After all, isn’t that what being a man is all about?

We’re selfish. Not selfish in the way that means hoarding the last slice of pizza, but selfish in a way that makes us avoid emotional investment. Standing up for Bruce would mean acknowledging that what happened to him could happen to any of us.

And honestly, who wants that kind of existential crisis over their morning coffee? Men don’t have each other’s backs because we’re too busy protecting our own fronts. We avoid eye contact with vulnerability the way Nairobians avoid rain on a Monday morning. We’ve been trained to see each other as competition, not community.

As I sat there that night, staring at my ceiling and replaying Gertrude’s words, I realized the truth: men don’t stand up for each other because we’ve never been taught how. Our silence isn’t just apathy—it’s fear. Fear of vulnerability. Fear of failure. Fear of being the next Bruce.

And so we tweet. We scroll. We move on. Because standing up requires effort, and frankly, effort is expensive. We’d rather keep our dignity intact, even if it means ignoring someone else’s is being torn apart.

Bruce deserved better. But this is the world we’ve built. A world where men are expected to stand alone.

The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the position of Pulse as its publisher.

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A man is brutally humiliated in public, yet the world’s reaction is nothing more than idle scrolling and tweets. In a society where men are taught to suppress vulnerability and avoid emotional investment, standing up for one another becomes a rare act. The silence that follows such an atrocity reveals a deeper fear—fear of vulnerability, failure, and becoming the next victim.

Why don't men stand up for fellow men? [Pulse Contributor's Opinion]

Peter Ongera

As we mark Men’s Day, a time to reflect on the roles, challenges, and contributions of men in society, it’s impossible to overlook the silent struggles men face in one of life’s most significant institutions—marriage.

While traditionally seen as protectors and providers, men are now grappling with evolving marital expectations, financial pressures, and societal shifts that challenge long-held norms.&nbsp;

Marriage has long been regarded as sacred and enduring, as expressed in the Bible:&nbsp;

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh. What God has united, human beings must not divide."

Despite these ideals, societal attitudes toward marriage are shifting. In many traditional societies, remaining single is still considered taboo.

Yet, according to marriage counsellor John Sergon, modern couples increasingly delay or avoid marriage due to fears of marital instability.

This reality highlights the growing complexities surrounding the institution of marriage, particularly for men.&nbsp;

<h3>Men and the changing dynamics of marriage</h3>

For generations, men have been socialised to shoulder the financial burdens of marriage, often at the expense of their emotional well-being.

Traditionally, a man’s value in a relationship was tied to his ability to provide.

However, with evolving societal expectations and Kenya’s Matrimonial Property Act, 2013, marriage is now seen as a partnership where contributions extend beyond finances to emotional support and domestic involvement.&nbsp;

The Act recognises non-monetary contributions such as childcare and homemaking, a commendable step toward equality.

Yet, this shift has left many men feeling undervalued, particularly in marital disputes where their financial contributions may no longer hold the same weight.

For some, this creates a sense of uncertainty about their roles in marriage, as they navigate uncharted waters of shared responsibility and mutual accountability.&nbsp;

Men are now expected to participate more actively in emotional and domestic labour, alongside their traditional financial roles.

This shift, while progressive, has also increased the pressures on men. They must balance societal expectations of being breadwinners with the need to engage emotionally and domestically, often without the tools or cultural support to navigate these new demands.&nbsp;

The result is a growing sense of vulnerability. Societal stigmas discourage men from expressing emotional struggles, creating a toxic environment where they feel pressured to appear strong, even as they silently grapple with the demands of modern marriage.&nbsp;

Marriage counsellor Dr. Philip Kitoto offers valuable advice:

"Marriages die when pollutants like selfish attitudes, blame-shifting, and lack of accountability infest the relationship."

For men, this means embracing open communication, empathy, and mutual respect—qualities traditionally dismissed as feminine but now essential for marital success.&nbsp;

The Bible’s teaching on marriage emphasises unity and partnership:

"So they are no longer two but one flesh."

Yet achieving this unity requires intentional effort. Men must learn to value their partners not just through financial contributions but also through actions, empathy, and shared responsibility.&nbsp;

<h3>Protecting men’s rights in marriage</h3>

Kenya’s matrimonial property laws emphasise fairness but demand transparency. Men must document their contributions—both financial and non-monetary—to protect their interests in the event of disputes.

This is especially crucial as joint ownership becomes the standard, and assumptions about men’s financial dominance fade.&nbsp;

Equally important is the need for men to redefine their roles in marriage. True partnership involves shared responsibilities and mutual respect, values that men must champion in their relationships.&nbsp;

As we celebrate Men’s Day, let us challenge the outdated narrative that men must bear the weight of marriage alone.

Instead, let us embrace a new vision of men as equal partners, capable of emotional depth, domestic contribution, and legal awareness.&nbsp;

Marriage is a shared journey, and its success depends on mutual effort. Men must be empowered to speak openly about their struggles in relationships—whether related to financial pressures, emotional labour, or fears of instability.

By fostering a culture of openness and support, we can equip men to navigate the complexities of modern marriage with confidence and compassion.&nbsp;

This Men’s Day, let us honour the men who strive to build strong, equitable marriages. Let us also acknowledge their challenges and provide them with the tools and support needed to thrive in an evolving marital landscape.

After all, a strong marriage is not a man’s burden to bear alone—it is a shared commitment to unity, growth, and love.

The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the position of Pulse as its publisher.

Editor's Note:&nbsp;Recognising the societal pressures men face, Pulse Kenya has partnered with Money Clinic for the second edition of the&nbsp;<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/mens-health/november-mens-month-explained-history-importance-and-celebration-tips/5jtenn6">Average Joe's forum happening on November 23, 2024</a>. The organisers are committed to creating a supportive, media-free environment where attendees can openly share and learn from one another.

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While traditionally seen as protectors and providers, they are now grappling with evolving marital expectations

Struggles of modern marriage: A Men’s Day reflection [Pulse Contributor's Opinion]

Paul Anthony Otieno

While mental health awareness has risen in recent years, society’s expectations continue to place immense pressure on men, fostering a culture where vulnerability is often mistaken for weakness.

This culture&nbsp;in turn can lead to men bottling up emotions, throwing them deep into Davy John’s locker, isolating themselves and carrying heavy burdens in silence.

The reality is that mental health challenges impact men significantly. Research shows that men are less likely to seek help for mental health issues, which often results in compounded struggles and quiet suffering.

As a popular saying goes, “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” These words resonate with an unsettling truth for many men, as their battles often remain hidden, masked by the expectation to maintain strength.

OPINION: <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/mens-health/investing-wisely-biblical-approach-to-financial-empowerment-for-men-pulse-opinion/z963yg5">Biblical approach to investing wisely, financial empowerment for men</a>

<h3>An introspective look at a man grappling with his mental well-being</h3>

He sits alone in the silence he fears, overthinking every word and action, trying to make sense of the gap between his inner self and the world around him.

Despite his charm and sociable nature, he is haunted by a sense of isolation often asking himself where he went wrong and why genuine connections feel elusive.

This solitary struggle captures the reality of men who, though seemingly surrounded by others, feel alone.

<h3>Understanding men’s mental health</h3>

Men’s mental health needs are shaped by <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/day-in-the-life-of-kenyas-modern-man-balancing-work-family-and-dreams/t045kxy">unique social pressures</a> and to understand the struggles men face, we must consider these complexities.

Traditionally, society has cast men as pillars of strength, resilience and endurance. This narrative, while empowering, leaves little room for the acknowledgment of vulnerability or the acceptance of emotional expression.

Mental health, however, doesn’t discriminate. Anxiety, depression, stress, and loneliness are battles that men face just as often as women.

Men are conditioned to solve problems independently yet mental health challenges require community, support and understanding.

This is why creating spaces where men can discuss these issues openly and without judgment is essential. <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/healthy-living/average-joes-a-transformative-platform-for-empowering-men/9eq120y">Platforms that encourage men to connect</a>, seek help and embrace their feelings could mark a shift in the right direction.

<h3>Breaking down barriers to seek help</h3>

Seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step toward strength and resilience. Therapy, community support groups and mental health resources are available and the stigma around using them is slowly fading.&nbsp;

Personally I never believed in therapy but I have seen it do wonders for people. Men who are open about their struggles set a powerful example for others, showing that courage is not only found in silence but also in vulnerability.

The media plays a crucial role in reshaping the narrative. Instead of portraying men as emotionless beings, stories that reveal the depth, challenges and emotional complexity of men help break down barriers.

Public figures and everyday role models who are vocal about their mental health experiences are helping to normalize this conversation.

<h3>A call for empathy and change</h3>

Men deserve the compassion and understanding that society often reserves for physical strength but fails to extend to emotional resilience.

Building a supportive culture where men can openly discuss mental health requires empathy, education and acceptance. Every person who takes the time to listen and to understand without judgment, becomes part of the solution.

For men, the journey to mental wellness isn’t about fitting into societal molds; it’s about finding spaces to be authentic, to unburden and to connect.

True strength lies in facing mental health challenges openly and knowing that support is within reach. Men need not face these battles alone. After all, “Kindness and understanding are the greatest strengths we can offer each other in our quiet battles.”

Editor's Note: Recognising the societal pressures men face, Pulse Kenya has partnered with Money Clinic for the second edition of the&nbsp;<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/mens-health/november-mens-month-explained-history-importance-and-celebration-tips/5jtenn6">Average Joes forum happening on November 23, 2024</a>. The organisers are committed to creating a supportive, media-free environment where attendees can openly share and learn from one another.

OPINION: The quiet battles, a look at men’s mental health [Image Credit: Mikhail Nilov]

In a world that often expects men to be stoic and composed, conversations about mental health are still slow to gain ground.

Quiet battles: Look at men’s mental health [Pulse Contributor's Opinion]

In Africa, where economies are often marked by volatility, political change, and global economic pressures, the need for sound financial habits and bold action is even more pronounced.

By exploring the principles in Ecclesiastes 11:2, 4, and 6, we can see how African leaders and entrepreneurs are harnessing these values to build secure and prosperous lives.

READ: <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/day-in-the-life-of-kenyas-modern-man-balancing-work-family-and-dreams/t045kxy">Day in the life of Kenya's modern man: Balancing work, family, and dreams</a>

<h3>Diversify your portfolio [Ecclesiastes 11:2]</h3>

Ecclesiastes 11:2 advises, "Invest in seven ventures, yes, in eight; you do not know what disaster may come upon the land." This is a timeless call to diversify.

In Africa, where economies are highly sensitive to global fluctuations in commodities, diversification provides a buffer against unexpected downturns.&nbsp;

For example, <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/business/international/tony-elumelu-foundation-lands-a-dollar20-million-deal-with-usadf/t4dtccr">Nigerian businessman Tony Elumelu</a> has embraced diversification as a core strategy for his success. Elumelu, a prominent entrepreneur, has interests in banking, energy, real estate, and philanthropy.

Through his company, Heirs Holdings, Elumelu has invested in various industries, reducing his exposure to risk in any single sector. Elumelu’s philosophy embodies the principle of spreading investments across different ventures.

As he puts it, “We need to diversify our economies and build on our natural strengths.”

By diversifying, Elumelu has created a financial empire that is less vulnerable to single-sector economic shifts, demonstrating the resilience that comes with varied investments.

READ:&nbsp;<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/healthy-living/average-joes-a-transformative-platform-for-empowering-men/9eq120y">Average Joes: A transformative platform for empowering men</a>

<h3>Don't wait too long to act [Ecclesiastes 11:4]</h3>

Verse 4 of Ecclesiastes says, "Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap." This verse speaks to the danger of waiting too long to act, especially in uncertain conditions.

In Africa, where political and economic uncertainties are part of daily life, waiting for the perfect time often means missed opportunities.

<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/business/international/top-5-business-influencers-in-africa/m192992">South African entrepreneur Vusi Thembekwayo</a> exemplifies the power of decisive action.

Known for his work as a venture capitalist and motivational speaker, Thembekwayo has spoken openly about the importance of not letting fear or economic conditions hold back one’s ambition.

He explains, "The opportunity will never feel perfect; you have to be courageous enough to take it."

Despite South Africa's economic instability, Thembekwayo has consistently taken bold steps, building multiple businesses in education, finance, and technology. His willingness to act, regardless of the clouds of uncertainty, has led to significant success and inspired many across Africa.

<h3>Consistent, ongoing effort [Ecclesiastes 11:6]</h3>

Verse 6 of Ecclesiastes states, "Sow your seed in the morning, and at evening let your hands not be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well."

This verse emphasises the importance of consistent, ongoing effort. Success rarely happens overnight; it requires daily dedication and perseverance.

A notable example is <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/business/domestic/how-billionaire-manu-chandaria-is-spending-his-retirement-as-a-93-year-old/gwych28">Kenyan entrepreneur Manu Chandaria.</a> Chandaria, who heads Comcraft, an industrial conglomerate with interests across 40 countries, emphasises that his achievements stem from years of hard work and dedication.

Despite his success, Chandaria remains active in his work, often spending long hours building his business and supporting philanthropic initiatives.

He often says, "Success is built over time, with patience and persistence." Chandaria’s journey underscores the power of consistent effort and illustrates the value of “sowing seeds” in various areas to reap a harvest over time.

<h2>Practical Steps for Financial Empowerment</h2>

<ul><li>Start Small, But Start Now</li></ul>

You don’t need a large amount of capital to begin investing. Start with what you have, even if it’s a small savings account, and let that grow. Nigerian fintech entrepreneur Tayo Oviosu started small with Paga, which has now grown into one of the most widely used payment platforms in Africa. He says, “Just begin. Great things start small, and time will bring growth.”

Following the principle of “seven, yes, eight” can mean exploring different industries or income sources. Tony Elumelu’s success across banking, energy, and real estate shows the power of a balanced approach.

<ul><li>Act Despite Uncertainty</li></ul>

There may never be a “perfect time” to launch a business or make an investment. Embrace calculated risks, understanding that uncertainty is part of the journey. Vusi Thembekwayo’s story demonstrates that waiting too long can mean missed opportunities.

Financial growth is a long game. Keep working towards your goals, even if progress seems slow. Manu Chandaria’s daily efforts remind us that dedication is the bedrock of sustainable success.

In closing, Ecclesiastes 11 provides invaluable insights into building wealth and securing a future, especially for men in Africa’s complex economic landscape.

By taking inspiration from leaders like Tony Elumelu, Vusi Thembekwayo, and Manu Chandaria, we see how a mix of diversification, courage, and consistent effort can lead to financial empowerment.

With patience, perseverance, and a willingness to act despite uncertainty, African men can create resilient financial foundations that support their families and communities through prosperous and challenging times alike.&nbsp;

Recognising the societal pressures men face, Pulse Kenya has partnered with Money Clinic for the second edition of the&nbsp;<a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/mens-health/november-mens-month-explained-history-importance-and-celebration-tips/5jtenn6">Average Joes forum happening on November 23, 2024</a>. The organisers are committed to creating a supportive, media-free environment where attendees can openly share and learn from one another.

Biblical approach to investing wisely, financial empowerment for men [Pulse Contributor's Opinion]

The wisdom from Ecclesiastes 11 is a powerful reminder of the timeless principles that can guide men toward financial resilience.

Florence Daudi

It encompasses a wide range of conditions and experiences, from everyday stress and anxiety to more serious disorders like depression or bipolar disorder.

Here are some friendly insights into maintaining and improving mental health:

Taking time for yourself is essential! Whether it’s indulging in a warm bath, reading a book, or going for a walk in nature, self-care helps recharge your mental batteries.

Keeping in touch with friends and family can be a great boost for your mental health. Sharing your thoughts and feelings—no matter how big or small—can lighten your emotional load and strengthen your connections.

READ: <a data-link-role-code="open_new_tab" href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/healthy-living/average-joes-a-transformative-platform-for-empowering-men/9eq120y">Average Joes: A transformative platform for empowering men</a>

Mindfulness practices, like meditation or deep-breathing exercises, can help you stay grounded. Just a few minutes a day can reduce anxiety and increase your sense of calm.

Setting achievable goals can give you a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Break larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate each little victory along the way!

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, talking to a mental health professional can provide support and strategies tailored to your needs. Remember, reaching out is a sign of strength!

Physical activity isn’t just good for your body; it’s great for your mind, too! Find an exercise you enjoy, whether it’s dancing, jogging, or yoga, and make it a regular part of your routine.

While technology can keep us connected, too much screen time can lead to feelings of isolation and anxiety. Try setting boundaries on your devices and take breaks when needed.

Journaling, art, or music are fantastic outlets for expressing emotions. Don’t hesitate to let your feelings flow, as creative expression can be incredibly therapeutic.

Pulse Contributor

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