Weather youre in a relationship or not, there are things we all hate during sex. Now, the same way we girls hate it when some dudes cant find the clitoris during cunnilingus, they also hate some of the things we do in bed.

If we are being honest with ourselves, not even porn will make you be good in bed, because porn is so exaggerated. The only way to improve yourself in the bedroom sector is through trial and error with your boyfriend or regular sleeping partner. That someone that you can be totally yourself around and whom you're not afraid to ask for feedback on your prowess in bed. You will not learn how a man likes his blow job if you do not ask him. You need to get feedback on some of these things. You might be thinking that you're a 'porn star' in bed, but you might be surprised that your skills are not quite there yet. Here are things you're doing during sex that guys don't particularly like.

1. A terrible blow job.

First of all, don't use your teeth. A penis is delicate and if you're giving a blow job, you need to be gentle. Keep up the consistency. Start slow and gradually get him there. It's like when a guy is going down on you and then stops when you're just about to climax. You need to be consistent too.

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2. Not arching your back.

If he's hitting it from the back, arch your back, don't lay there with a back as flat as a table. Arching your back gives him a good balance and entry point and it's also quite a view for him. Doggy style can be a bit painful especially if you're dealing with a monster d**k. If you're in pain, instead of trying to run away when he's behind, you could tell him to go slow or switch positions.

3. Screaming too loudly.

Moaning is okay but screaming as though you banged your small toe on a wooden chair is not particularly the sexiest thing. Keep it subtle, the whole estate doesn't have to know that you're getting strokes.

4. Not knowing how to ride correctly.

Oblivious to many of us women, sometimes, men feel pain when we ride too hard. Especially when we try to bend backwards when on top. Some men feel pain. You need to ensure that your man is also enjoying lest you get his d*ck flaccid from bad riding skills. How do you learn how to ride? Well, as I said earlier, porn is a little exaggerated but it could help but the best way is practicing with your man. The goal is to both enjoy.

5. Saying you love him during sex.

Just don't especially if you're not dating. It's awkward and even if you feel all those emotions, avoid telling a man you love him during sex at all costs. You will not only ruin the moment but also make it awkward especially because he's not likely to tell you that he loves you back.

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